I had to jump today.
When it is a stranger I am more sympathetic to their situation.
But, I find that if it is a family member or friend, my attitude is quite opposite. I am indifferent.
I think this is beacuse I want them to do better. Not so that I wont have to be bothered, but so that they can be better for themselves.
I sometimes feel that the help they ask for is not help at all. That they should reserve having to ask for this until it is a true true emergency. Not because they failed to do something.
Am I wrong?
Do I understand you on this one!!! I wish I had your same thought process when it came to this subject. People should only ask for a need not a want but I'm always a suker.:(
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